This is when a man wants out of the relationship, but doesn't want to be the one to break it off. How did I find out about this phenomenon???...well I have brothers!! In my view we owe it to ourselves and other women to expect the best from our brothers and sons, so when I found out my brother was two-timing his girl I challenged him. I asked him why he wasn't open with Girl1 if things were not working out.
His response was that a gentleman never dumps a girl. You let her do the dumping, that way there's less bitterness etc. How do you do this? Well when you lose interest, you stop calling, stop paying attention etc she will take the hint and eventually dump you. Because she makes the decision she feels less bitter about it. (I don't agree with this at all ...because I have seen some needy women cling on for dear life even when it is obvious that the man is not interested, and I have seen the men let them because oh well its sex/cooking/attention on tap for the asking even when they are not feeling the girl)
So ladies, if you have ever dumped a man and he looked like he was waiting for it, expecting it, or he doesn't protest/ protests half heartedly ...sorry to break it to you, but you were probably reverse dumped LOL
Why this topic? Well I'm about to be reverse dumped!! I still haven't seen 'a one' yet, but when next I see him I will have all the DVDs he has loaned me to hand (no don't worry I'm not being petty. He is a collector, and I know if I don’t return them he will be thinking about those DVDs long after I'm gone but will be too polite to ask for them back)
It hurts. I will tell him its over and he will not protest, he may not even ask why. He may say something like 'are you sure?' just to play his part. Or even if he asks why, after listening to my reasons he may say something like 'I respect your decision' :(
He swept me off my feet when we first met ...and went out of his way to woo me and impress me. He got my attention, and then he just switched off. What kind of evil b****** does that to a woman?
Any way I'll be the one saying the words, but I know I’m the one being dumped.
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Unmodern, totally unrelated to your post, can i get an email addy for you...or can you email me at bobbytaylorconsulting@gmail.com
Your comment meant a bit too much to me (smile)... (Loved and appreciated it...)
New concept.. never thought of it.. Pele but you never know , it might work back in reserve.
Dumping him might make him come after you, then you can redump him again
omo @ reverse dumping, my brothers have told me the same thing. Apparently they dont think it is proper to dump a woman. Crazy i tell u.
Sorry sha, i hope u get past whatever it is.
Matters of the heart are definitely not easy.
LOL.. been a while I came here.. Totally new concept to me, but who is the loser? Well its him the Reverse Dumper :)
Thats the way I see it :)
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